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<rss version="2.0"><channel><title>James D Kirk is Boldly Going! Are you? - Latest Comments</title><link xmlns="http://www.w3.org/2005/Atom" rel="http://api.friendfeed.com/2008/03#sup" href="http://disqus.com/sup/all.sup#forumcomments-172ef5a9" type="application/json"/><link>http://jamesdkirk.disqus.com/</link><description></description><language>en</language><lastBuildDate>Tue, 16 Jun 2009 10:02:01 -0000</lastBuildDate><item><title>Re: Is affordable web hosting the best rated?</title><link>http://boldlygoing.com/2009_06_15/is-affordable-web-hosting-the-best-rated/#comment-10981729</link><description>The best rated are usually a bit more expensive, for good reason. My site needs to be up 24/7 and a shotty hosting service can't guarantee this. I need a professional to handle my business. Regards!</description><dc:creator xmlns:dc="http://purl.org/dc/elements/1.1/">Chicago honda dealers</dc:creator><pubDate>Tue, 16 Jun 2009 10:02:01 -0000</pubDate></item><item><title>Re: AZ DOT Pledge</title><link>http://boldlygoing.com/2007_10_03/good-customer-service/#comment-7111888</link><description>There are a number of private websites that can ease the hassles of the dmv like &lt;a href="http://www.dmv.com/ca/california" rel="nofollow"&gt;http://www.dmv.com/ca/california&lt;/a&gt;. Getting everything together beforehand can really help speed things up.</description><dc:creator xmlns:dc="http://purl.org/dc/elements/1.1/">The_DMV</dc:creator><pubDate>Wed, 11 Mar 2009 17:32:49 -0000</pubDate></item><item><title>Re: CES and WordCamp Las Vegas wrap up soon</title><link>http://boldlygoing.com/2009_01_12/ces-and-wordcamp-las-vegas-wrap-up-soon/#comment-5085889</link><description>Thank you, John! The pleasure was all mine, trust me on that one. This was my first ever WordCamp, and I am now primed for more, more, more. I'm literally trying to figure out when the very next one I can attend will be! My best friend and often business partner &lt;a href="http://josephcizek.info" title="Joseph Cizek" rel="nofollow"&gt;Joseph Cizek&lt;/a&gt; wants to put on the first ever WordCamp Los Angeles. I'm putting him on your "experienced" track. Let's have another great weekend in L.A.!</description><dc:creator xmlns:dc="http://purl.org/dc/elements/1.1/">jamesdkirk</dc:creator><pubDate>Mon, 12 Jan 2009 22:25:45 -0000</pubDate></item><item><title>Re: CES and WordCamp Las Vegas wrap up soon</title><link>http://boldlygoing.com/2009_01_12/ces-and-wordcamp-las-vegas-wrap-up-soon/#comment-5085751</link><description>Hey James! It was great meeting you at WordCamp:Las Vegas. I'm looking forward to the wrap-up post. &lt;br&gt;&lt;br&gt;Cheers!</description><dc:creator xmlns:dc="http://purl.org/dc/elements/1.1/">vegasgeek</dc:creator><pubDate>Mon, 12 Jan 2009 22:15:32 -0000</pubDate></item><item><title>Re: QwittQuacks</title><link>http://boldlygoing.com/2008_11_16/qwittquacks/#comment-4798096</link><description>So many interesting new ways to promote and stay connected..qwitter just makes me smile for some reason</description><dc:creator xmlns:dc="http://purl.org/dc/elements/1.1/">mmo</dc:creator><pubDate>Wed, 31 Dec 2008 10:18:20 -0000</pubDate></item><item><title>Re: @Fayza: The Politics &amp;#038; Practice of “Following” on Twitter</title><link>http://boldlygoing.com/2008_11_09/fayza-the-politics-practice-of-%e2%80%9cfollowing%e2%80%9d-on-twitter/#comment-4238722</link><description>Hey James - no doubt that Twitter has the attention of the social networking world - as there is no shortage of add-on functionality for the browser. This is a good thing.  And because of this interaction factor, Twitter mileage will vary from user to user.  I'm finding for myself that face-to-face communication can't be beat and there is no hiding behind a creative Avatar when it comes to interpersonal communication.  Secondly, if I have to 'get my social fix' via the Web, I find that there is more satisfaction shaking hands via a Blogger's comment section, than anything else.   &lt;br&gt;BG has been added to my feed.  Blog on!</description><dc:creator xmlns:dc="http://purl.org/dc/elements/1.1/">Geak</dc:creator><pubDate>Sun, 07 Dec 2008 16:40:39 -0000</pubDate></item><item><title>Re: Seth Trek!</title><link>http://boldlygoing.com/2008_12_03/alternative-mba/#comment-4163987</link><description>Hi James. Great you like this Seth Godin button. Feel free to use it to link to your lens and just remove the source reference for better looks.  The backlink to my post is here with this comment.</description><dc:creator xmlns:dc="http://purl.org/dc/elements/1.1/">CoCreatr</dc:creator><pubDate>Thu, 04 Dec 2008 07:11:07 -0000</pubDate></item><item><title>Re: QwittQuacks</title><link>http://boldlygoing.com/2008_11_16/qwittquacks/#comment-4044737</link><description>Hi, jameskirk.&lt;br&gt;&lt;br&gt;Jason M Bader (jasonmbader) stopped following you on Twitter after you posted this tweet:&lt;br&gt;&lt;br&gt;@JasonCalacanis Geesh, has JC gone cookoo? I mean is there nothing better to tweet about? Yikes.&lt;br&gt;&lt;br&gt;Check out jasonmbader's profile here:&lt;br&gt;&lt;br&gt;&lt;a href="http://twitter.com/jasonmbader" rel="nofollow"&gt;http://twitter.com/jasonmbader&lt;/a&gt;</description><dc:creator xmlns:dc="http://purl.org/dc/elements/1.1/">jamesdkirk</dc:creator><pubDate>Thu, 27 Nov 2008 21:12:42 -0000</pubDate></item><item><title>Re: @Fayza: The Politics &amp;#038; Practice of “Following” on Twitter</title><link>http://boldlygoing.com/2008_11_09/fayza-the-politics-practice-of-%e2%80%9cfollowing%e2%80%9d-on-twitter/#comment-3905342</link><description>Hey Geakz. Totally hear ya. I'm a hot and cold Twitter user. It only took me a couple of sessions of having a small number of tweets coming to my cell phone for that to get turned off! Since I started using it, I've tried various desktop (and when it was available, IM) applications for notifications. Lately, I've been using TwitterFox and that seems to give me about the right amount of distractions, though not uncommon for me to just turn it off in the browser's status bar.&lt;br&gt;&lt;br&gt;As to the vibes, I honestly don't really get a whole lot of incoming so, I'll just take your word on that front. I can totally imagine, however!&lt;br&gt;&lt;br&gt;Thanks for stopping by. Hope to see you round about these parts again (you did subscribe to my feed, right? ;) )</description><dc:creator xmlns:dc="http://purl.org/dc/elements/1.1/">jamesdkirk</dc:creator><pubDate>Wed, 19 Nov 2008 20:18:57 -0000</pubDate></item><item><title>Re: @Fayza: The Politics &amp;#038; Practice of “Following” on Twitter</title><link>http://boldlygoing.com/2008_11_09/fayza-the-politics-practice-of-%e2%80%9cfollowing%e2%80%9d-on-twitter/#comment-3905265</link><description>Thanks for the link + words.  I've since deep sixed my Twitter account - cold turkey - due to some vibe-y-ness I was getting.  I was having flashbacks to both High School and AOL 4.0 chat rooms.  Haven't missed it since.  &lt;br&gt;Blog on.</description><dc:creator xmlns:dc="http://purl.org/dc/elements/1.1/">Geak</dc:creator><pubDate>Wed, 19 Nov 2008 20:11:59 -0000</pubDate></item><item><title>Re: QwittQuacks</title><link>http://boldlygoing.com/2008_11_16/qwittquacks/#comment-3887928</link><description>Yeah, I've actually read similar reports. The novelty of it is actually pretty interesting, though. Thanks for stopping by Andy. Long time no see. Trusting you're doing well with whatever is keeping you busy!</description><dc:creator xmlns:dc="http://purl.org/dc/elements/1.1/">jamesdkirk</dc:creator><pubDate>Tue, 18 Nov 2008 20:16:33 -0000</pubDate></item><item><title>Re: QwittQuacks</title><link>http://boldlygoing.com/2008_11_16/qwittquacks/#comment-3887068</link><description>Quitter runs a batch of people who quit recently, and the latest tweet at the time. If you tweet 20 times  day, the tweet they quit on is likely reported only 10% accurately.</description><dc:creator xmlns:dc="http://purl.org/dc/elements/1.1/">AndyBeard</dc:creator><pubDate>Tue, 18 Nov 2008 19:09:27 -0000</pubDate></item><item><title>Re: QwittQuacks</title><link>http://boldlygoing.com/2008_11_16/qwittquacks/#comment-3843853</link><description>Here's my first:&lt;br&gt;Hi, &lt;a href="http://twitter.com/jameskirk" target="_blank" rel="nofollow"&gt;jameskirk&lt;/a&gt;,&lt;br&gt;&lt;br&gt;Xavier Lur (kidtechguru) stopped following you on Twitter after you posted this tweet:&lt;br&gt;&lt;br&gt;"I would have said yes!" Vic, Lipstick Jungle, tonight.&lt;br&gt;&lt;br&gt;Check out &lt;a href="http://twitter.com/kidtechguru" target="_blank" rel="nofollow"&gt;kidtechguru's profile here&lt;/a&gt;</description><dc:creator xmlns:dc="http://purl.org/dc/elements/1.1/">jamesdkirk</dc:creator><pubDate>Sun, 16 Nov 2008 17:17:19 -0000</pubDate></item><item><title>Re: Test Post to Check TwitterTools Plugin Update</title><link>http://boldlygoing.com/2008_11_13/test-post-to-check-twittertools-plugin-update/#comment-3791989</link><description>Note to self (and other Disqus users): their handling of links is pretty piss poor (or after a dozen years, I just don't know how to code an href!) but make sure you add on a 'target="_blank" ' attribute or you'll open the link inside of this comment iframe. And that's just no way to read a web page!</description><dc:creator xmlns:dc="http://purl.org/dc/elements/1.1/">jamesdkirk</dc:creator><pubDate>Sat, 15 Nov 2008 13:43:58 -0000</pubDate></item><item><title>Re: Test Post to Check TwitterTools Plugin Update</title><link>http://boldlygoing.com/2008_11_13/test-post-to-check-twittertools-plugin-update/#comment-3785319</link><description>In case you are getting this here first, be sure to follow &lt;a href="http://alexking.org/blog/2008/11/13/twitter-tools-151" target="_blank" rel="nofollow"&gt;this link&lt;/a&gt; to Alex's update on the update.</description><dc:creator xmlns:dc="http://purl.org/dc/elements/1.1/">jamesdkirk</dc:creator><pubDate>Fri, 14 Nov 2008 23:00:40 -0000</pubDate></item><item><title>Re: @Fayza: The Politics &amp;#038; Practice of “Following” on Twitter</title><link>http://boldlygoing.com/2008_11_09/fayza-the-politics-practice-of-%e2%80%9cfollowing%e2%80%9d-on-twitter/#comment-3657046</link><description>Oy!  I'm not really sure what's up with the lengthy photo removal diatribe.  Call me crazy, but I think I only asked that you take down my photo because you didn't ask to use it.  It's not Creative Commons.  You gotta ask.  You know how to get at me.  End of story.  Why you mockin', yo?&lt;br&gt;&lt;br&gt;Anyway, I wasn't mounting a case against you in my post; I didn't think there was a "side" to be taken.  We're not at odds (are we?), so I'm confused.  I think my post is pretty factual; I don't believe I'd done you wrong.  But to me, this post, it walks the line.  I appreciate the lovely compliments you've paid to me (xoxo!), but then it sort of...devolves.  At any rate, I think it's best to address your points in order.&lt;br&gt;&lt;br&gt;(1) &lt;i&gt;Over the ensuing 7 months, you’ll see the ten @replies I made towards Fayza. Oh, and I had followed her right after the Scooby reference, so I’ll have to presume that she was definitely getting my @replies. Plus given the volume of tweets that come from her, I thought it safe to assume that the ten times I did reply, she likely did actually see more than one of them.&lt;/i&gt;&lt;br&gt;&lt;br&gt;You're right; I saw them.  Most of 'em, anyway.  Now let's take a look at the context of your tweets.  They were comments to my tweets.  They didn't ask questions (if they did, you posited the questions and then answered the questions yourself), and they didn't require a response.  I read them.  I ingested them.  I chewed 'em up and swallowed 'em.  Whaddya want me to say to them?  You made great points.  Excellent ones.  I enjoyed your points.  Especially the one about the boric acid - I actually took that advice!  But they weren't engaging me in a conversation; they were mere reactions to what I'd said.  Good points, but points only, nonetheless.&lt;br&gt;&lt;br&gt;(2) &lt;i&gt;I did not unfollow her right away, as she even indicated in her original post, “The Politics &amp; Practice of ‘Following’ on Twitter“. It was another five (5) days of receiving her twitter stream and a final @reply on my part, that was not responded to which pushed me to push the “unFollow” button.&lt;/i&gt;&lt;br&gt;&lt;br&gt;The one I mentioned in my post that I never responded to was the final @reply from you, that I recall.  And there, you most certainly asked me a question, and believe you me, I mulled over my response to you for the five days that I said nothin', and during those days after you stopped following me, too.  You spurred an entire blog post!  So, sorry I didn't answer you in 140 characters or less.  Sometimes, Twitter's not the right medium.&lt;br&gt;&lt;br&gt;(3) &lt;i&gt;By this I mean, I had never observed a tweet from Fayza indicating that she had a new blog post just published&lt;/i&gt;&lt;br&gt;&lt;br&gt;Maybe you just weren't that into me then, because I did, many times:  &lt;a href="http://search.twitter.com/search?q=fayza+new+post" rel="nofollow"&gt;http://search.twitter.com/search?q=fayza+new+post&lt;/a&gt;.  I have Twitterfeed set up for that purpose, actually!&lt;br&gt;&lt;br&gt;(4) &lt;i&gt;or anything from any of the other 19 (yes, that’s NINETEEN) other social networks she has listed on her blog.&lt;/i&gt;&lt;br&gt;&lt;br&gt;Errr, is there a problem with that?  After all, knowing social media is kinda what I do.&lt;br&gt;&lt;br&gt;(5) &lt;i&gt;I like to keep the number of folks I follow on Twitter to right at 100.&lt;/i&gt;&lt;br&gt;&lt;br&gt;Wait a second, YOU don't follow everyone that follows you?  Really?!  Huh.  Interesting.  I don't either!  You're sneaky.&lt;br&gt;&lt;br&gt;(6) &lt;i&gt;why should Fayza be “lamenting” about losing a follower (especially one that she never followed after almost 8 months, and ten direct responses)?&lt;/i&gt;&lt;br&gt;&lt;br&gt;My post "laments" those that stopped following me, those that never followed me, and those that I had a mutually following relationship with which the other person ended.  Why should I be lamenting?  Well, why should you be lamenting my lamenting? ;)&lt;br&gt;&lt;br&gt;(7) &lt;i&gt;My question is how much more must it take for you to hit the “follow” button?&lt;/i&gt;&lt;br&gt;&lt;br&gt;Probably not blog posts about me!  I keed, I keed.&lt;br&gt;&lt;br&gt;This was fun!</description><dc:creator xmlns:dc="http://purl.org/dc/elements/1.1/">F.</dc:creator><pubDate>Mon, 10 Nov 2008 00:35:00 -0000</pubDate></item><item><title>Re: @Fayza: The Politics &amp;#038; Practice of “Following” on Twitter</title><link>http://boldlygoing.com/2008_11_09/fayza-the-politics-practice-of-%e2%80%9cfollowing%e2%80%9d-on-twitter/#comment-3652637</link><description>Hey, thanks for the well-researched, well-argued post!  You've given me a lot to think about.&lt;br&gt;&lt;br&gt;I am in the middle of washing my cat right now (I plan to video it!), but in the meantime, let me think on your points and craft my own response.  However, would you please remove this photo?  You didn't ask to use it beforehand, and it's not Creative Commons licensed.&lt;br&gt;&lt;br&gt;To be continued...!</description><dc:creator xmlns:dc="http://purl.org/dc/elements/1.1/">F.</dc:creator><pubDate>Sun, 09 Nov 2008 19:03:36 -0000</pubDate></item><item><title>Re: @Fayza: The Politics &amp;#038; Practice of “Following” on Twitter</title><link>http://boldlygoing.com/2008_11_09/fayza-the-politics-practice-of-%e2%80%9cfollowing%e2%80%9d-on-twitter/#comment-3652414</link><description>Wow, I've known about your effect on women, and it seems to go beyond proximity (i.e., when you date them or spend more than 20 minutes with one).  You can reach them through their computer screens!  This convo sounds like a drawn-out break-up.&lt;br&gt;&lt;br&gt;I suggest a disclaimer on your Twitter profile, Web site, etc...&lt;br&gt;&lt;br&gt;"My online presences are for males only.  This is not sexism, but for the protection of general female mental health.  Exposure to me by females, in direct or electronic form, leads to disorientation, confusion, hormone imbalance, fits of rage, cognitive dissonance, dementia, memory loss, loss of coherent speech, mild and situational psychosis, and Tourette's Syndrome."&lt;br&gt;&lt;br&gt;I just based the symptoms on what you've told me about your ex-girlfriends and dating experiences ;-)</description><dc:creator xmlns:dc="http://purl.org/dc/elements/1.1/">JC</dc:creator><pubDate>Sun, 09 Nov 2008 18:35:03 -0000</pubDate></item><item><title>Re: Election 2008, the eve of history</title><link>http://boldlygoing.com/2008_11_03/election-2008-the-eve-of-history/#comment-3564835</link><description>Did anyone else reading this post sit glued to the election night results with the TV on one channel, and your laptop streaming another news outlet? Getting the balance of volumes just right was tricky, but once set, it was amazing to get so much information regarding the incoming votes.&lt;br&gt;&lt;br&gt;Plus, I was definitely maxing out my Firefox browser with tabs opened showing me the various news organizations electoral coverage maps. Amazing, simply amazing. OH, and the results were amazing on the factor of 10 to the way the hell out there magnitude!</description><dc:creator xmlns:dc="http://purl.org/dc/elements/1.1/">jamesdkirk</dc:creator><pubDate>Thu, 06 Nov 2008 00:12:15 -0000</pubDate></item><item><title>Re: Customer service should transform to self service</title><link>http://boldlygoing.com/2007_11_29/cottonwood-customer-service/#comment-2589440</link><description>Ah, Ginger. Thanks so much for adding this comment. I see this ALL THE EFFING TIME!! And I think to myself, "Who the hell raised you?" But more importantly, do they even have a remote clue as to what they are doing when they are at work? Where they are? Where the PAYING customers are? As you said, "UGH!"</description><dc:creator xmlns:dc="http://purl.org/dc/elements/1.1/">jamesdkirk</dc:creator><pubDate>Wed, 24 Sep 2008 23:27:10 -0000</pubDate></item><item><title>Re: Communicate about telecommuting</title><link>http://boldlygoing.com/2008_08_01/asking-about-telecommuting/#comment-2589402</link><description>I'd much prefer if the people in the company I worked for used some sort of IM or Skype chat vs. sending email after email after email to tell me "Thanks", "Sure", "You got it!". Argh!! I've started ending my emails out with something along the lines of, "That should do it. Please reply if there are any questions or concerns..." But I've just started this technique, so I'll see if that reduces the email volume.</description><dc:creator xmlns:dc="http://purl.org/dc/elements/1.1/">jamesdkirk</dc:creator><pubDate>Wed, 24 Sep 2008 23:24:03 -0000</pubDate></item><item><title>Re: Communicate about telecommuting</title><link>http://boldlygoing.com/2008_08_01/asking-about-telecommuting/#comment-2589198</link><description>Well I primarily use email, MSN Messenger, and &lt;a href="http://Box.net" rel="nofollow"&gt;Box.net&lt;/a&gt; for collaborating.</description><dc:creator xmlns:dc="http://purl.org/dc/elements/1.1/">Stan James</dc:creator><pubDate>Wed, 24 Sep 2008 23:01:49 -0000</pubDate></item><item><title>Re: Communicate about telecommuting</title><link>http://boldlygoing.com/2008_08_01/asking-about-telecommuting/#comment-2290009</link><description>I've been through this in terms of a marketing company I worked with previously.  Back then it was tough, now it's easier with IM, Google docs, etc.</description><dc:creator xmlns:dc="http://purl.org/dc/elements/1.1/">large_size_shoes</dc:creator><pubDate>Thu, 11 Sep 2008 14:55:28 -0000</pubDate></item><item><title>Re: Communicate about telecommuting</title><link>http://boldlygoing.com/2008_08_01/asking-about-telecommuting/#comment-2257629</link><description>I use skype in the office.. and I have to say, it´s very effective for intra-office communication. People do tend to reply to the IMs because we all use it.. it´s used for work questions, problems, suggestions and is respected for that. There is a certain lack of physical contact there... even going so far as to say there is a lot less conversation made in a day. Email inboxes are always open as well... so that´s a good way to commuinicate too. I prefer skype though. Hope this helps a little. Karlin</description><dc:creator xmlns:dc="http://purl.org/dc/elements/1.1/">Karlin Lexiker</dc:creator><pubDate>Wed, 10 Sep 2008 05:48:56 -0000</pubDate></item><item><title>Re: 50 Things Your Customers Wish You Knew</title><link>http://boldlygoing.com/2008_07_23/50-things-your-customers-wish-you-knew/#comment-2024507</link><description>Guess I should have made that link more clear! The image in the post actually links through to the original blog. I'll do better next time, though. Promise!</description><dc:creator xmlns:dc="http://purl.org/dc/elements/1.1/">jamesdkirk</dc:creator><pubDate>Tue, 02 Sep 2008 21:05:46 -0000</pubDate></item></channel></rss>